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The sexual reflection of our body image

The sexual reflection of our body image

I was caught by a news headline that in a poll of a thousand people, approximately 50% of female participants say they would rather go without sex for the summer than gain 10 pounds. One quarter of the male respondents

Sustainable Love: Obstacles to Intimate Conversation

Sustainable Love: Obstacles to Intimate Conversation

“Love is the answer, but while you are waiting for the answer sex raises some pretty good questions” -Woody Allen Many people have trouble talking about sexual topics, including me. I have never been successful using the pornographic language often

Making Love Sustainable: Getting out of our own way

Making Love Sustainable: Getting out of our own way

“Confronted by outstanding merit, there is no way of saving one's ego except by love”                                        Johann Wolfgang von Goethe   One of the single biggest life lessons that can change both your relationships and your ability to succeed  is to

Intimate Mindfulness

Intimate Mindfulness

“The most precious gift we can offer others is our presence. When mindfulness embraces those we love, they will bloom like flowers.”   Thich Nhat Hanh   The practice of mindfulness , originated within Buddhist traditions but has been adapted into

The  Elusive Orgasm

The Elusive Orgasm

Orgasm is elusive for millions of women. Many studies, including a 2001 global study of 27,000 participants from 30 countries on sexual behavior revealed that orgasmic dysfunction is the norm rather than the exception.  One third of all women have

Making Love Sustainable: Basically Good

Making Love Sustainable: Basically Good

Confidence in the goodness of another is good proof of one's own goodness. Michel de Montaigne   photo via the round peg Many relationships suffer from a lack of self-esteem. A relationship’s self esteem is connected to that of the

Pleasure is a close cousin to gratitude if not its twin

Pleasure is a close cousin to gratitude if not its twin

“Wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving.”  Kahlil Gibran Gratitude is a visceral response. It is a creative burst of energy that springs from us, with a single purpose, to do good

Sustainable Love: text relationships- idk

Sustainable Love: text relationships- idk

My kids taught me to text. They all have cell phones that they rarely answer except if I am calling, the condition that I set for paying for all their texting. But if I want an immediate response I know

Bringing “Eco” to the Beach

Bringing “Eco” to the Beach

I am always thinking about how to make life more green sustainable so when I had the opportunity to review a new eco-line of sexy swimsuits I offered up my two daughters happily. As a devoted green business owner, I

The Vulnerable Confident Heart

The Vulnerable Confident Heart

“The supreme reality of our time is the vulnerability of this planet.”  -John Fitzgerald Kennedy Photo via Quixotic Pixels    The life of the heart is one of contradictions. It is where our greatest strengths are often our most profound

Listening With The Body

Listening With The Body

"For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time.” -Isabel Allende Recent studies have found high correlations between the music that teens are listening to

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